The Biggest Lies We Tell Each Other In Our Relationships With Marisa Peer

What keeps most of us from finding lasting love

Do you find yourself continually attracted to the wrong kind of partner? Are you still attracting emotionally unavailable or abusive people? If so, there may be something holding you back from finding lasting love.

“The biggest problem with finding and creating lasting love is…people stay with the wrong person because they fear they’ll never get better,…and the fear of being alone causes us to fall with the wrong person. Corn [for me,] … I’d rather be alone for the rest of my life than be with the wrong person. …When I decided that if I’m alone for the rest of my life, it’s okay [because] I have people that I love, … I had a lot of love.– Marisa Peer

The fear of being alone is a reality. This is what causes us to form relationships with the wrong people time and time again. We are so desperate for someone to be with us that we will settle for anyone who has us. But is this really what we want? Being stuck in a relationship with someone you don’t even love, just because you’re afraid of being alone? There is nothing wrong with wanting someone to be there for us. But let’s not let our fear of being alone control our lives. Let’s take some time to figure out what we really want and pursue it.

“So the belief that trauma binds you forever – I’m not sure that’s a good idea. I think that might work for some people, right? You just have to think of a better belief. Just decide: “I’m adorable. … My grandmother used to say, ‘Every pan has a lid.’ So you’re someone’s lid and someone’s your pan. You’re someone’s fancy dream come true. Someone will find you deeply lovable just the way you are, but you can’t make them believe it. If you don’t believe it, you can’t make someone believe you are worthy of love.– Marisa Peer

It can be hard to believe in yourself when you feel like you don’t measure up. If you don’t believe it, you can’t make anyone else believe it. But if you want to find love, you have to start by believing that you are worthy of it. Sometimes it just takes one person to show they believe in you and give you the confidence boost you need. So find someone who believes in you and let them guide you. You never know where it might lead.

“The only thing you’ll ever need to do to find love is one thing – convince yourself you’re worthy of it until it’s because a belief is a belief. I’m now convinced – this It’s not a fleeting thought. It’s an absolute belief, and beliefs come with time. So tell yourself, “I’m lovable and I’m worthy” until it’s an unshakable belief.– Marisa Peer

Believing that you are worthy of love and that you deserve happiness is one of the most important things you can do for yourself. You have to believe in yourself and your abilities. One of the best ways to do this is to tell yourself over and over again that you are lovable and worthy. By doing this, you will begin to believe it as an unshakeable truth, and when you believe in yourself, anything is possible. So start telling yourself today that you are amazing and watch your relationships align and change for the better.

What needs to be aligned for a relationship to work

It’s no secret that relationships take work, but what many people don’t realize is that there are a lot of things that need to be aligned for a relationship to really work. For this to work, both people need to be on the same page and aligned with each other. This means that their goals, values ​​and beliefs need to be aligned. If they are not, there will always be tensions and conflicts. Alignment is key to a successful relationship, and Marisa shared with us the most important things that need to be aligned for a relationship to work.

“I think the lifestyle is the [most important]. … The first thing we fight for is money, and the second is chores, even if they have a cleaning lady. So that must tell you that lifestyle is all you see. You don’t have to have the same values. You might be of a different religion. … We could come from a different culture and we can get by. … So lifestyle is important. Values ​​are important too. And goals and dreams are important.– Marisa Peer

Often when we think of relationships, the first thing that comes to mind is love. But what happens when love fades? What keeps a relationship together when passion dies? The answer is often lifestyle compatibility. If you and your partner don’t have a compatible lifestyle, the relationship may fail. That’s not to say it’s impossible for a relationship with different lifestyles to work, but it certainly is more difficult. So before getting into a serious relationship, make sure you and your partner are on the same page when it comes to lifestyle.

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